How to Deepthroat

Wanna learn how to give a blowjob without gagging?

How deepthroat a big dick? For some people it’s easy. If you don’t have a strong gag reflex then you probably don’t even have to read this guide… Unfortunately if you do have a strong gag reflex it might seem impossible to deepthroat your partner without throwing up. Don’t worry, even without the natural talent you can still improve a lot and learn how control gag reflex during oral sex!

Basic questions

Deepthroat meaning

What does “deepthroat” mean? Hmmm… let me show you…

Brunette deepthroating a big cock

Yes, its possible. Yes, you can learn it. Yes it really is deep in her throat.

How deep can you deepthroat?

It depends on a person but the general answer is – deeeeep 😉

blonde girl deepthroating a dildo

How do pornstars deepthroat?

First of all many of them don’t have a strong gag reflex and that’s the reason they became famous deepthroaters. The rest is just training and sometimes tricks (like man moving his hips back to hide his penis and make it look like it’s all inside the woman’s throat.)

Can anyone deepthroat?

Just like with everything else. Everyone can do it but not at the same level. If you’re born with a strong gag reflex you might never reach the level of professional porn stars but you can definitely improve and still give a satisfying deepthroat blowjob to your partner.

Deep throat exercises

If you want to learn how to deepthroat, you should buy a dildo! Buy an elastic and not to thick (its ok if its long) dildo and never, absolutely never try to deepthroat banana or sausage as it could easily break in your throat! If you don’t have a dildo yet, you can use your fingers or even a toothbrush to touch the right spots in your throat but eventually as you will get more advanced you will definitely need a dildo.

Basic

Deepthroat training is all about getting rid of the gag reflex or at least making sure it’s not too strong to stop you from deepthroating. If you’re absolute begined just start with putting your finger deep inside your mouth. Try to touch the back of your tongue or throat and look for the spot triggering the gag reflex (this should not be hard to find…). Once you have the right spot just relax (as much as its possible) and try to touch it again and again. Don’t force anything. It will be hard at first but you’ll get used to it and step by step you’ll get better. What’s important here is training everyday (everytime you brush your teeth?) and not giving up. You simply can’t skip this part. Learning how to control your gag reflex is absolutely crucial.

Advanced deepthroat training instructions

Once you feel your gag reflex is under control you’re ready to practice proper deepthroating with your partner or by yourself with a dildo. At this point you should be able to put the dildo/penis deep inside your mouth and let it touch the back of your throat. You will still feel some gag reflex but you should be able to control it most of the times, and by the way CONGRATULATIONS!!! At this point you are able to give your partner very satisfying blowjob! Your goal now is to learn how to perform a proper, full, “balls deep” deepthroat. Here’s a video of advanced dildo deepthroating just to show you whats possible.

Other things you need to know

Best positions for deep throat blowjob

Different people like different positions but the three most basic positions are:

  1. laying on your back on the edge of the bed
    Woman throatfucked on the edge of the bed
  2. laying on your belly with your head up
    Woman with a penis deep in her throat
  3. on your knees with your head up
    Woman on her knees deepthroated

Breathing

You won’t be able to breath once the dildo/penis is deep in your throat! You have to breathe when its out (but you won’t have this problem until you really learn how to deepthroat properly)

Lubrication

Make sure the dildo/penis is not dry (it can be a good idea to use a lubricant). Make sure it slides down your throat easily.

Speed

Speed matters! If you’re training with your partner, ask him to stay still so you can control the movement (you can also grab his penis with your hand just to be sure id doesn’t go to deep and to fast. Fast and dynamic deepthroat blowjob (throatfucking) is absolutely the highest level and you’re probably not ready for it yet.

Relax and have fun

You’re not gonna become good at it if you don’t enjoy it so just relax and have fun!