How to Deepthroat and Control the Gag Reflex – Tutorial

Check out the best tips on deepthroating and learn how to give a deep-throat blowjob without gagging for the first time.

A woman saying @In case you were wondering, I deepthroat"

For some people deep throat oral sex is easy. If you’re one of them and don’t have a strong gag reflex, you probably don’t even have to read this guide… Unfortunately, if you do have a sensitive gag reflex it might seem impossible to deepthroat the entire penis without gagging or even throwing up if your gag reflex is hypersensitive. Don’t worry, even without the natural talent you can still improve a lot and learn how to control the gag reflex during oral sex! By the end of this tutorial, you’ll be ready to start practicing and soon you’ll surprise your partner with some new skills.

Deepthroat Meaning

What does “deepthroat” mean? Deep throat blowjob/deepthroating basically means sliding your partner’s entire penis deep in your throat during oral sex. For some it comes naturally, other people need some more training. It’s all about your gag reflex and controlling it during the swallowing motion. If it’s strong, learning how to control it will require a lot of practice. If you have no gag reflex… well… lucky you. You might be able to swallow the entire length of the average penis without any special training or just with a little practice. ??

How do Pornstars Deepthroat?

It’s all about learning how to control the gag reflex or just not having it. The rest is just training and sometimes tricks (like the man moving his hips back to hide his penis and make it look like it’s all inside the woman’s throat.

Can Anyone Deepthroat?

Just like with everything else. Everyone can do it but not at the same level. If you’re born with a strong gag reflex you might never reach the level of professional porn stars but you can definitely improve and still give a satisfying deepthroat blowjob to your partner.

If you want to learn how to deepthroat, you should buy a dildo! Buy an elastic and not too thick (it’s ok if it’s long) dildo and never, absolutely never try to deepthroat banana or sausage as it could easily break in your throat! If you don’t have a dildo yet, you can use your fingers or even a toothbrush to touch the right spots in your throat but eventually, as you will get more advanced you will definitely need a dildo.

How to Practice Deepthroat

Basic deep throat training instructions

blonde girl deepthroating dildosLearning to deepthroat takes some time but this tutorial will help you get there. It might be a good idea to start with your fingers or a dildo first before you move on to the real thing. The training is all about getting rid of the gag reflex or at least making sure it’s not strong enough to stop you from deepthroating the real penis. If you’re an absolute beginner, just start with putting your finger deep inside your mouth. Try to touch the back of your tongue or throat and look for the gag reflex trigger point (spot triggering the gag reflex). This should not be hard to find… Once you have the right spot just relax (as much as possible) and try to touch it again and again. Don’t force anything. It will be hard at first but you’ll get used to it and step by step you’ll get better. What’s important here is training every day (every time you brush your teeth?) and not giving up. Whether you train with a sex toy or with your partner you simply can’t skip this part if you want to learn the art of deep throat. Learning how to control your gag reflex is absolutely crucial but it will help you give your partner something way more exciting than a regular blowjob.

Advanced training instructions

Woman showing  how to practice deepthroat with a dildo
How to practice deepthroat?

Once you feel your gag reflex is under control you’re ready to practice proper deepthroating with your partner or by yourself with a dildo (check out our Dildo Deepthroat videos).  A “jelly” elastic dildo will work best. You should be able to put the dildo/penis deep inside your mouth and let it touch the back of your throat. You will still feel some gag reflex but you should be able to control it most of the time and by the way CONGRATULATIONS!!! At this point, you are able to give your partner a very satisfying blowjob! Your goal now is to learn how to perform a proper, full, “balls deep” deepthroat. Here’s a video of advanced dildo deepthroating just to show you what’s possible.

How to choose the right dildo for deepthroat training?

  1. Make sure the dildo is not too thick to deepthroat.
  2. It’s much better if the dildo is elastic. A “jelly” dildo will be perfect
  3. Get a long dildo. Sometimes it’s even easier with the long ones.

Numbing Spray

Sometimes perfect blowjob technique and training are not enough. Some people like to to use a little help in form of a throat-numbing spray. It’s not going to give you total control over your gag reflex but it can be helpful sometimes. This deepthroat tutorial will show you how to control your gag without the use of the numbing spray.

Best Positions

Different people like different positions but the three most basic positions are:

 

Laying on your back on the edge of the bed

Woman throatfucked on the edge of the bed

Laying on your back with your head hanging over the edge of the bed is one of the most common deepthroating positions. Your throat is aligned in a straight line with your mouth which makes avoiding gag reflex easier. As you’re giving full control to your partner, make sure you trust him enough and he won’t go too crazy… If you are afraid he will put his penis too deep or too fast you can just grab it with your hand and only let it slide as deep as you want it. It’s very important for you to feel confident and relaxed.

 

Laying on your belly with your head up (grabbing your ankles/heels)

Woman with a penis deep in her throat

Similar to the previous position but definitely less comfortable. You probably won’t be able to stay in this position for too long and as both of your hands are busy holding your ankles you won’t have any control over your partner’s movement. It is a great (but advanced) position that will make your partner go crazy! To make it even spicier wear high heels (and grab them)!

On your knees

Woman on her knees deepthroated

Basic oral sex position perfect for beginners. You can control your partner’s moves with your hands (just grab his penis) so it’s perfect if you don’t feel comfortable (yet) with his penis deep in your throat or just want to control the speed. It’s basic, classic, and comfortable. It simply works and doesn’t really need a long explanation…

 

Breathing

You won’t be able to breathe once the dildo/penis is deep in your throat! You have to breathe when its out (but you won’t have this problem until you really learn how to deepthroat properly)

Lubrication

Make sure the dildo/penis is not dry (it can be a good idea to use a lubricant). Make sure it slides down your throat easily.

Speed

Speed matters! If you’re training with your partner, ask him to stay still so you can control the movement (you can also grab his penis with your hand just to be sure it doesn’t go too deep and too fast. Fast and dynamic deepthroat blowjob (throatfucking) is absolutely the highest level and you’re probably not ready for it yet.

Relax and have fun

You’re not gonna become good at it if you don’t enjoy it so just relax and have fun! And remember – this guide will not help you if you won’t start training 😉

How do Pornstars Deepthroat?

It’s all about learning how to control the gag reflex or just not having it. The rest is just training and sometimes tricks (like the man moving his hips back to hide his penis and make it look like it’s all inside the woman’s throat.

Can Anyone Deepthroat?

Just like with everything else. Everyone can do it but not at the same level. If you’re born with a strong gag reflex you might never reach the level of professional porn stars but you can definitely improve and still give a satisfying deepthroat blowjob to your partner.

How to Practice Deepthroat?

The training is all about getting rid of the gag reflex or at least making sure it’s not strong enough to stop you from deepthroating the real penis. If you’re an absolute beginner, just start with putting your finger deep inside your mouth. Try to touch the back of your tongue or throat and look for the gag reflex trigger point (spot triggering the gag reflex).

How to choose the right dildo for deepthroat training?

Make sure the dildo is not too thick to deepthroat.
It’s much better if the dildo is elastic. A “jelly” dildo will be perfect
Get a long dildo. Sometimes it’s even easier with the long ones.

9 thoughts on “How to Deepthroat and Control the Gag Reflex – Tutorial

  1. I have a terrible gag reflex. Have been working on it for over two weeks now and its a bit better but still not even close to the girl from the video.

  2. Just use a toothbrush to touch your throat every time you brush your teeth. It worked for me. The gag reflex is not so strong anymore and I was finally able to give a nice deep throat blowjob to my husband. Of course he didn’t know i was secretly training my throat so that was a surprise.

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